"I don't want to drive up to the pearly gates in a shiny sports car, wearing beautifully, tailored clothes, my hair expertly coiffed, and with long, perfectly manicured fingernails. I want to drive up in a station wagon that has mud on the wheels from taking kids to scout camp. I want to be there with a smudge of peanut butter on my shirt from making sandwiches for a sick neighbors children. I want to be there with a little dirt under my fingernails from helping to weed someone's garden. I want to be there with children's sticky kisses on my cheeks and the tears of a friend on my shoulder. I want the Lord to know I was really here and that I really lived."

— Marjorie Pay Hinckley


"None of us come to this earth to gain our worth; we brought it with us."

--Sheri L. Dew

Tuesday, September 3, 2013

Happy things, Sad things

There are two exciting things to talk about.  Grace had her first day of first grade today!  Grant completed his first full marathon on Saturday and finished with a time of 3:49, not too bad for a rookie! 
 
 
 
And, one very sad thing.  See that cute family?  That is my oldest sister and her family.  Despite what the picture says, those two got along a lot better than that :)  Friday before last, August 23, early in the morning before 8am, the boy on the far right, the seemingly annoying one bothering his sister, was taken from this world in an instant.  He was on his way to work, all alone on the highway, and somehow rolled his car, was ejected and died at the scene.  He was only 18.  We've had a sad week.  But, despite it all, the gospel is still true, and that is the beautiful thing!  He was a great kid and I know exactly where he is right now and, the best part, I know he is still my little nephew!  He will be forever and ever and ever! 
He was a very sweet boy, he loved to read and to his mother's dismay, probably read more than slept!  He was kind and included everyone.  He knew when to laugh.  He got good grades and could figure just about anything out.  He could argue a point, and well.  When he was little he loved Blue's Clues, the Spot dog series and, like any boy, airplanes and trucks and trains.  He was the oldest grandchild on both sides and this year, turned one year older than my dad!! (his birthday is leap year day)  He played lacrosse, sang in 3 different choirs, ran cross country and earned his Eagle Scout award.  He knew how to work hard and he didn't shirk his duties, just sometimes his chores :)  He was ordained an Elder a little while back and was working to earn money to serve an LDS mission.  He will be missed greatly, and I can't wait for him to greet me when my time is up here on earth. 

4 comments:

Marilou said...

Oh Christine, I'm so sorry. Our love goes out to your family. How wonderful the gospel is... but the separation is still hard.

Angie said...

So sorry for your loss. He sounds like a great kid. Thinking of you and your family.

Nicole said...

Sorry about your loss. You're in our prayers!

Chelsea B. said...

I was so sad to hear about this. I hurt so bad for your family and especially your mom. Lots of prayers for all of you!